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Healing isn't just about the physical body, it's also about the mind and heart. Negative mental attitudes, unresolved abuse and trauma, and excessive stress all contribute to people's health problems. Steven has been working with this level of healthcare since the late 1980s and has helped hundreds of people to heal from abuse, trauma, and unresolved mental and emotional stress. In the webinars listed in this section, Steven shares insights into how to work with this level of healing. You'll discover a wealth of tools and techniques to you can apply to help yourself and others lead a healthier, happier, and more successful life. 

For additional help and training, you can also check out the following resources:

Emotional Healing Training Program

In 2018, Steven created a series of webinars on emotional healing work. Use this link to access the complete course, which is also available on YouTube.

The Heart's Key YouTube Channel

Steven created this channel to share videos on working on the mental, emotional, spiritual, and social aspects of health. 

Manifest versus Unmanifest Reality

Manifest versus Unmanifest Reality

Most people never look past the surface of anything. They see the end result, but never search for the source. They try to fix the symptom, but never eliminate the root cause. They react with expediency to superficial things in interpersonal relationships,…

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Cupid's Poisoned Arrow

Cupid's Poisoned Arrow

The three most common causes of marital arguments are money, children and sex. The drive to reproduce is a very strong instinct that can be used to create bonding between a man and a woman or can create friction and disharmony, depending on how it is…

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Forgiveness

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is an important part of the healing process in many ailments. Harboring resentment and bitterness can lead to problems with the liver and gallbladder, immune system, and heart. Specifically, forgiveness may be important in healing from cancer,…

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Emotional Anatomy

Emotional Anatomy

In this webinar, Steven teaches a unique system of emotional anatomy he created based on the tree of life. He starts with a discussion of polarity and the front-back and right-left divisions of the body. He covers the twelve emotional energy centers found…

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Stop Playing the Blame Game

Stop Playing the Blame Game

All too often we waste time and energy trying to figure out whose fault it is and avoiding the responsibility for our part of the problem by playing the blame game. Avoid this no-win game and start working on solutions to problems instead of trying to affix blame.

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The Healing Power of Empathetic Listening

The Healing Power of Empathetic Listening

One of the most powerful tools one can employ in helping someone to heal emotionally is to master the art of empathetic listening. This skill is important for any practitioner of the healing arts, as it makes people feel comfortable and helps them open…

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Restoring a State of Grace

Restoring a State of Grace

Grace is the ability to move in a flowing, smooth, uninhibited manner. Whether we're talking about physical grace or social grace, the effect is the same. Wild animals and children are naturally graceful, flowing with inhibition or shame. The lack of…

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Communicating from the Heart

Communicating from the Heart

This webinar discusses the three levels of human love, eros, philia, and agape. It then moves on to the role of emotion in communication and how it is possible to communicate directly from one heart to another. It discusses the difference between persuasion…

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Flower Essences

Flower Essences

This webinar explains what flower essences are, how they are made, and how to select the right remedy for a person. It talks about methods of administering flower remedies in baths, sprays, and orally. It also discusses what flower essences can and cannot…

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The Many Faces of Love

The Many Faces of Love

This webinar is about love and connection. It talks about different kinds of love including unconditional love and erotic love. It explains the association of love with pleasure and why the love associated with desire can turn into hate. It also discusses…

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Anger Management

Anger Management

Anger can be a destructive influence in our lives if we don't know how to manage it. It can damage our relationships and even cause physical health problems. But anger isn't all bad. It does have a useful purpose in our lives, which is to help us set…

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Setting Healthy Boundaries

Setting Healthy Boundaries

The most constructive way to deal with anger is to learn to set healthy personal boundaries. People who have healthy boundaries don't attack or abuse other people, but they also do not tolerate abuse. They don't lose their temper, but they don't act like…

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The Divine Opportunity in Grief

The Divine Opportunity in Grief

No one gets through this life without suffering losses and setbacks. The sadness and grief we experience when this happens can cause us to open our heart more fully to life or to harden our heart and shut down. Doing the former will lift us up, doing…

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Developing Courage and Self-Confidence

Developing Courage and Self-Confidence

Everyone experiences fear. When we allow our fears to control us, we fall far short of our potential and we suffer from a lack of self-confidence. By having the courage to face our fears and learn to act in spite of them, we are able to reach greater…

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The Question-Affirmation Technique

The Question-Affirmation Technique

Most people are familiar with affirmations, a technique used to help people replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts. We'll be discussing this technique and it's benefits, as well as why it sometimes backfires. We'll then discuss the power of…

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Forgiveness as a Healing Technique

Forgiveness as a Healing Technique

We will be discussing how to recognize trespass and abuse and how to heal from its effects through forgiveness. We'll be talking about why forgiveness is important and how to do it.

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Age Regression

Age Regression

One of the more advanced tools I use in emotional healing work is age regression. This is a way of taking people back to trigger events in their lives and discovering how these events have affected them. You then help them process the previously unresolved…

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Reprogramming Your Mental Computer

Reprogramming Your Mental Computer

Learn how the physical brain is like a computer and how you can change the programs that it is running so you can change your life.

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Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energy

Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energy

Starting in the 1960s, it became politically incorrect to suggest that there were any differences between the sexes that weren't the result of cultural conditioning. Unfortunately, this attitude hasn't improved relationships between the sexes, because…

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Using Mental Tools

Using Mental Tools

In this webinar, I'll explain what mental tools are and why I believe they work. I'll give you examples of various mental tools I've used successfully.  I'll even explain how to use this technique to get more effective results with prayer. Mental…

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The Three Laws of Human Relationship

The Three Laws of Human Relationship

This webinar discusses judgment, justice, and mercy as three laws of human relationships. It discusses relationships as a connection that creates an exchange of energy between two people or things. It discusses the golden rule and the law of the harvest…

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The Compassionate Heart

The Compassionate Heart

This webinar is based on the idea that the heart is more than a pump. It is an organ with an electromagnetic pulse that helps move the blood and also sets the emotional state of the body. The electromagnetic pulse of the heart can be transmitted and received…

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Co-Counseling Techniques

Co-Counseling Techniques

Co-counseling is a technique developed by Harvey Jackins to help people help each other heal from trauma. The basic idea is that we've all suffered from trauma or abuse in our lives that we haven't fully reconciled. I present the ideas surrounding this…

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Emotional Bank Accounts

Emotional Bank Accounts

In this webinar, I'm going to introduce basic laws of human interaction and how they apply to male and female relationships, particularly marriage. In any relationship we develop an emotional bank account with the other person and they develop one with…

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Understanding Children

Understanding Children

I think that parenting is one of the easiest and funnest jobs in the world. How can I possibly say that, especially when so many people find parenting difficult, challenging and exhausting? It's because of a book I read in 1980 when my oldest daughter…

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Grateful in All Things

Grateful in All Things

Gratitude is the great attitude. It is a magic reset button in life that can help us adjust our attitude from negative to positive very rapidly. Most of us spend too much time worrying about what we might lose or fretting over what we don't have to open…

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The Mind-Body Connection

The Mind-Body Connection

In our modern world, human health has been split into many different specialties. Medical doctors are assigned to take care of the body, psychiatrists treat mental disorders and counselors deal with relationship problems. This was not always the case.…

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Recognizing Abusive Behavior

Recognizing Abusive Behavior

Whenever we do something that physically or emotionally harms another person, we are being abusive. The problem is that abuse is so rampant in our society most people don't even recognize that some behaviors are abusive. This means that we often don't…

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Basic Flower Essences

Basic Flower Essences

In this webinar I'll cover some of my favorite flower remedies and tell stories about how I've used them. I'll try to help you understand the plant's personality and how it energetically relates to its signatures and how it is used.

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Cultivating a Positive Attitude

Cultivating a Positive Attitude

In this webinar I'll talk about what a positive mental attitude is, why it is important to have a positive mental attitude and how to cultivate it.

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Emotions and the Chinese 5 Elements

Emotions and the Chinese 5 Elements

This is a presentation I gave at a Nature's Sunshine conference that ties together the Chinese 5-elements with the emotional states each represents and the flower essence blends and Chinese herbal formulas that go with each.

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The Importance of Self-Care

The Importance of Self-Care

People in the natural health field are often very generous, giving people, who care deeply about the welfare of others. Unfortunately, they often make the mistake of neglecting themselves. Perhaps they feel self-care is selfish or are simply so busy helping…

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The Enchantment of Opposites

The Enchantment of Opposites

In magnetism, opposite poles attract and like poles repel. This simple fact acts as a metaphor for the magnetic attraction between the sexes. It is the differences between men and women that create the polarity that causes sexual attraction. The politically-correct…

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 The Creative Power of Belief

The Creative Power of Belief

Most people think of beliefs as something having to do with accepting specific religious doctrines or ideas. But, belief is not about passively accepting something as true. Belief is an an active power of creation. If "all things are possible" to someone…

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 Questioning Your Thoughts

Questioning Your Thoughts

If you've ever looked closely at what goes on in your mind, you will notice that there is a constant flow of thoughts running through your mind throughout the day. This constant "chatter" is usually accepted without question, but if you can step back…

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 Mastering Non-Violent Communication

Mastering Non-Violent Communication

There is a lot of discord, contention and even violence in the world right now. People are divided and social media is filled with angry, critical voices. What can we do to help bring peace to these situations? Marshall Rosenburg's Non-Violent Communication…

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The Continuum Concept

The Continuum Concept

Jean Liedloff made several trips to South America where she encountered tribes like the Tauripan, Sanema and Yequana tribes. Her experience opened her mind to the realization that something was wrong with the way we have all been raised. This realization…

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 Developing and Maintaining a Positive Mental Attitude About Everything

Developing and Maintaining a Positive Mental Attitude About Everything

Napoleon Hill is famous for his teachings on having a Positive Mental Attitude (PMA), but he is not the only one to talk about the importance of this trait. A Positive Mental Attitude is essential for success in life, for, without it, it is difficult…

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Mind Over Matter

Mind Over Matter

We are often encouraged to be "realistic," which means to believe in the material or natural world and to not hold onto ideas or beliefs that do not conform with what has already been observed and proved.  But if we look deeply into the question,…

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Body Wisdom

Body Wisdom

This will be the second webinar I've done on this topic. In the first, The Mind-Body Connection (February 2015), I went through parts of the body, starting at the feet and ending at the head, and discussed the kinds of mental and emotional issues…

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Open Your Mind by Recognizing and Overcoming Your Inherent Bias

Open Your Mind by Recognizing and Overcoming Your Inherent Bias

Our world today is filled with contention and division. It is hard to discuss anything, especially on the internet, without things devolving into a personal attack.People's minds are largely closed and their hearts are largely hardened. What do I mean…

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Cultivating Your Power of Discernment

Cultivating Your Power of Discernment

The world is filled with conflicting opinions and disagreement. The data and lines of reasoning people use to support their positions often are often confusing and contradictory, too. How do we tell truth from error? How do we recognize what is true from…

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The Healing Power of Forgiveness

The Healing Power of Forgiveness

Resentment, bitterness, and hatred are like a cancer in the human soul. They not only deprive a person of peace, they can actually contribute to the development of physical disease. I've found that many conditions can involve holding onto past hurts and…

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